number 90

perhaps it makes me a bad friend, perhaps it makes me a smart person, but when a friend comes up to me cry about how so and so was a bitch to them, i usually try to hear both sides before i start yelling.

my dad seems to think it means i'm not a good friend because of this, but i look at it as just being more rational.

many times i've had a friend run up to me cry about someone who i am also friends with. maybe that's how i started this, maybe it isn't.